The definitive guide
to creating the sex life
of your                               
— just by talking about it! — 
from sexpert couple
Vanessa and Xander Marin.

wildest dreams

The definitive guide to creating the sex life of your                                       — just by talking about it! —  from sexpert couple Vanessa and Xander Marin.

wildest dreams

You know communication is important in a relationship, but you just don’t know how to get started with such a sensitive subject. Maybe you’ve never talked about sex at all, and the thought of it makes your palms sweat. Or you’re feeling so disconnected from your partner that sex is the last thing on your mind. Maybe you’re too scared to be honest about what you really want. Or you have no freaking clue what you want, so you’re not sure how to tell your partner anything helpful!

Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life is here to change that. Together, sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband, Xander, show you that the best thing you can do for your sex life doesn’t even involve taking off your clothes. Sex Talks guides you through the five essential conversations every couple needs to have to create an extraordinary sex life. You’ll discover how to:

  • Get comfortable and even have fun talking about sex
  • Stay emotionally connected
  • Turn each other on
  • Make each other feel good
  • Keep the spark alive for life

You’ll come away with a richer understanding of your needs and desires, and practical ways to create deeper intimacy with your partner.

With storytelling that ranges from tear jerking to laugh out loud funny, Vanessa and Xander take an intimate peek at what really goes on behind other couples’ closed bedroom doors. Sex Talks gives you the sex education you wish you’d had, the reassurance that you’re normal and not alone, and the tried-and-tested tools you need to create the sex life you deserve.
Why is it so hard to talk about sex, even with the person who regularly sees you naked?

AN INSTANT BEST SELLER

have these essential conversations!

"Sex Talks is a terrific book. Finally here's a book that recognizes that most sex issues are a result of the lack of communication. The book beautifully guides the essential conversation we all need to have about sex. Furthermore, it helps us overcome the myths that drag down on us."

john gottman

Author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

make those conversations easier, and perhaps even fun

“If there is one thing I know from my years as a sex therapist it's that talking about sex may be one of the most difficult hurdles couples face when they want to improve their sex lives. Sex Talks shows you how to make those conversations easier, and perhaps even fun.”

Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus

Author of Sex Points

this book redefines what it means to have great sex 

“This book redefines what it means to have great sex. With her signature frankness and relatability, Vanessa Marin reveals the secrets to a fulfilling love life. You’ll never think about intimacy and desire the same way again.”

LOGAN URY

 Author of How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love

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Listen to Sex Talks
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Meet New York Times Best Selling authors Vanessa and Xander Marin. She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience, he’s a regular dude, and together they wrote Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life.

They’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you’ll be calling your new besties in no time. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. 

Follow them on Instagram @vanessaandxander, and tune in to their podcast, Pillow Talks, for totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what *really* goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more. It’s the sex education you WISH you’d had!

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Vanessa & Xander Marin

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